Diagnosis, 2018

I went for the screening because my doctor said it was a good idea to get a ‘baseline’. She said it wasn’t urgent, but I did want to be diligent, so I made the appointment…

This Too

I bought myself a ring in December 2018, shortly after my lumpectomy. The ring itself was beautiful, but even more than the piece of jewellry, I wanted the words around my finger. I had it…

Not Ready

I’m not ready for the new season. Getting up earlier, rushing through the same morning routine five days a week, none of that is appealing. I’m not excited about restarting the Zoom social group on…

This is How She Talks

With nouns and names primarily, put together into her own combinations, or not. With words that sound like something else, another word or not a word. But if you listen to her say it enough…

Letting the Light In

Just before the long weekend started I set an intention. I went as far as to write it down as a reminder in my phone, not trusting the looseness of an intention that lives only…

April 11th, 2021

He bought this picture at Metrotown when he was still living in the other long term care home. A picture of the pier in the city he calls his ‘hometown’, hung above his bed in…

February 28th, 2021

Yesterday my grandpa was dying, and my daughter turned eleven. My mom and grandma went to the hospice to be with him while my stepdad and mother-in-law drove in to deliver birthday surprises to their…

March 2020

“How are you doing?” The question, from a stranger passing by (at a distance), made me tear up. Lots of things are making me tear up lately. The nightly videos of people cheering for the…